WHY SO MANY ALMOST.
Wednesday, July 27, 2016
Yesterday’s DT
question is: As Christ’s representatives sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ the
one and only Redeemer, why do so many hearers reject His freely offered gift of
present and eternal deliverance?
The question is
the result of sermon heard sitting at Pastor Bob Myer’s feet Sunday morning, my
later repeated readings of print text he provided me with, and pondering the
message therein; that our USA independent individualistic attitude very much adversely
effects churches in the USA, in particular Benson Baptist Church. We love to
celebrate Independence Day, every day!
In response to
the DT question posed:
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In my experience, people who flatly reject Jesus are
actually angry with him or with God (not realizing the irony of being angry at
someone who doesn't exist) because they have had a painful childhood or because
they have seen someone they love dearly, who they believe to be a good person,
suffer greatly before their death. Great pain causes us to either turn
completely to God or completely away from him.
I also see many adults
who have not been brought up with a knowledge of God, so have no interest in
learning as an adult because they believe they are doing fine or believe that
Christianity demands that they give up everything fun in their lives.
Also have to admit
that I am not good about telling them either. I put in my thoughts when the
chance arises, but never begin the conversation myself.
Cheri [NV]
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There's multiple reasons I can think of. I don't mean
to present this list as exhaustive.
1) The Gospel is an offense to the flesh. Our
pride doesn't like hearing that we can't do what we need to on our own and need
a Savior. (Ro 3:10, 3:23, 5:12, 6:23)
2) Positional arguments, as opposed to principled
arguments, are tough to internally overcome once we've dug our heels in.
An individual who has said for a long time (s)he doesn't need Jesus will fear
losing face if they admit they've had a change of heart. (James 1:19, 4:6)
*This concept is also applicable for
discussions or negotiations Christians engage in after being saved, not just
limited to non-believers accepting Christ for the first time.
3) True Christianity often calls for giving up instant
"rewards" for the sake of greater long-term gain. For some this
instant gratification seems too much to give up. (Rom 12:1)
4) The truths of Christianity deal with the spiritual
realm, sometimes not the tangible or material. Self-described
"realists" are very reluctant to believe in anything they can't
physically see or touch (Eph 6:12, Col 3:2, Phi 4:8)
5) Some people have had bad personal experiences with
the church and/or Christianity and as such have made their minds up to not go
back to church (Matt 5:16, 1 Ti 3:7)
6) Modernist philosophy, which says that math and
science are absolute but religion and morals are relative, has become the main
line of thinking in the US. Those who subscribe to this philosophy usually
don't fully trust in Christ for one of two reasons:
-They think Christians are arrogant for
thinking that Christianity is the only true way to heaven and see this as
hateful and/or intolerant of other worldviews (John 14:6)
-They are open to the teachings of the
Bible but see them as one option among many, AKA "I can learn some things
from Christianity, some things from Islam, and some things from Buddhism and
then combine them to create my own personal religion because I define my own truth"
(John 14:6, 2 Ti 3:16, 17)
David [NE]
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From Gotquestions.org
"Why do people reject Jesus as their Savior?"
The
decision to accept or reject Jesus as Savior is the ultimate life decision. Why
do many people choose to reject Jesus as Savior? There are perhaps as many
different reasons for rejecting Christ as there are people who reject Him, but
the following four reasons can serve as general categories:
1) Some people do not think they need a savior. These people consider
themselves to be “basically good” and do not realize that they, like all
people, are sinners who cannot come to God on their own terms. But Jesus said,
“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except
through me” (
John
14:6). Those who reject Christ will not be able to stand before God and
successfully plead their own case on their own merits.
2) The fear of social rejection or persecution deters some people from
receiving Christ as Savior. The unbelievers in
John
12:42-43 would not confess Christ because they were more concerned with their
status among their peers than doing God’s will. These were the Pharisees whose
love of position and the esteem of others blinded them, “for they loved the
approval of men rather than the approval of God.”
3) For some people, the things that the present world has to offer are more
appealing than eternal things. We read the story of such a man in
Matthew
19:16-23. This man was not willing to lose his earthly possessions in order
to gain an eternal relationship with Jesus (see also
2
Corinthians 4:16-18).
4) Many people are simply resisting the Holy Spirit’s attempts to draw them to
faith in Christ. Stephen, a leader in the early church, told those who were
about to murder him, “You stiff-necked people, with uncircumcised hearts and
ears! You are just like your fathers: You always resist the Holy Spirit!” (
Acts
7:51). The apostle Paul made a similar statement to a group of gospel
rejecters in
Acts 28:23-27.
Whatever the reasons why people reject Jesus Christ, their rejection has
disastrous eternal consequences. “There is no other name under heaven given to
men by which we must be saved” than the name of Jesus (
Acts
4:12), and those who reject Him, for whatever reason, face an eternity in
the “outer darkness” of hell where there will be “weeping and gnashing of
teeth” (
Matthew
25:30).
Recommended Resource: Jesus: The Greatest Life of All by Charles Swindoll
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One of the ways I
was challenged by mentors in my novice days was being asked a question with the
only option for answering was to give a applicable summarizing passage from God’s
Word (required digging & deciding L)
and then explain what I understood He said.
In response to yesterday’s question I share
Jesus’ answer: "For
God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him
should not perish but have eternal life. For God
did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the
world might be saved through him.
Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but
whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in
the name of the only Son of God. And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the
darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. For everyone who does
wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works
should be exposed. But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it
may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God." [ESV Jn. 16-3:21]
To mentors Bud
Bond, the Germeroths, the Heger brothers, and you I say individuals do not want
to give up what they believe is independent control of their personal life.
Even those that trust Christ as Redeemer have a continuing battle with His
Lordship. We either accept and love the light of the world, or we live
all-about-me loving the darkness of independent living far from the light. (Jn.8:12;
2Cor.4:4; Mt.5:14) For the lost this is an eternal one-time decision. For those
of us presently and eternally secure in Him it is a continuing confrontation involving
the truth of Romans 12:1-3.
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