Wednesday, June 30, 2021

CHASTENING

 

Many today teach the truth that God is love but fail to teach that within His love He rebukes, corrects, chastises and disciplines those whom He loves. (Jn.3:16; 1Jn.4:8, 16; Rom.8:28; 2Sam.7:14; Heb.12:7, 8)

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GotQuestions.org: What does it mean to be chastened?

  Hebrews 12:6 says, “For whom the Lord loves he chastens, and scourges every son whom he receives” (KJV). Another word for “chasten” is “discipline.” The passage goes on to quote Proverbs 3:11-12, which says, “My son, do not despise the Lord’s discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because the Lord disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in.” Proper discipline is a proof of love.
  Throughout Scripture, God portrays Himself as a Father. Those who have received Jesus as Savior are His children (
John 1:12Galatians 3:26). He uses the analogy of father/son because we understand it. He compares Himself to a loving father who not only blesses but disciplines His beloved children for their own good. Hebrews 12 goes on to show that those who do not receive God’s discipline are not legitimate children (verse 8). A loving father carefully watches his son, and when that son defies his orders and heads for danger, the father disciplines him to keep him safe. God does that with us. When a born-again child of God heads for sin or refuses to resist temptation, our Heavenly Father brings chastening into his life to direct him back to holiness.
  Chastening can come in the form of guilty feelings, unpleasant circumstances, loss of peace, relationship fractures, or any number of negative consequences for choosing sin. Sometimes, the chastening of the Lord can be physical illness or even death (
1 Corinthians 11:30).
  Often, people ask if God is “punishing” them for wrong choices in the past. All our punishment for sin was exhausted upon Jesus on the cross (
Romans 5:9). The wrath of God was poured out on Him so that for those who are “in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1) no wrath remains. When we give our lives to Christ, our Substitute for sin, our sin is forgiven and God remembers it no more (Hebrews 8:1210:15-18). However, often, our wrong choices in the past have brought about unpleasant consequences now. God does not necessarily remove the natural consequences of sin when we repent. Those consequences are tools God can use to teach us, to prevent us from repeating the same mistakes, and to remind us of God’s grace.
  Examples of chastening are found throughout the Bible. The Israelites were continually disobeying God’s commands (
Numbers 14:21-23Judges 2:1-22 Kings 18:12). He was patient with them, He sent prophets to plead with them, and He warned them many times. But when they dug in their heels and embraced idols or evil practices, God brought chastening upon them in the form of plagues or enemy attacks (Jeremiah 40:3). He still loved them, and in His love He could not allow them to continue in behavior that would destroy them.
  There are many examples of personal chastening in the Bible, as well, even upon those in whom the Lord most delighted—Moses (
Numbers 27:12), David (1 Chronicles 28:3), and Solomon (1 Kings 11:11), to name a few. Notice that, although these men made mistakes and were chastened for them, God did not stop loving or using them. He brought discipline appropriate to the crime, but always forgave the truly repentant heart. God always restored the relationship.
  When we sin, we can expect that our loving Heavenly Father will not let us get away with it. Because He loves us, He desires us to live holy lives (
1 Peter 1:15-16Romans 8:29). If someone professes to know Christ but is living a lifestyle of unrepentant sin and claims to “feel fine about it,” with no qualms, then that person is not a legitimate child of God (Revelation 3:19Hebrews 12:5-11Job 5:17Psalm 94:12I John 3:4-12). God “chastens everyone he accepts as his son” (Hebrews 12:6).

Tuesday, June 29, 2021

DEFINING LIFE ETERNALLY PRESENTLY

 DEFINING LIFE ETERNAL PRESENTLY

  Daniel 12:2-3 … many of those who sleep in the dust of the earth shall awake, some to everlasting life, and some to shame and everlasting contempt. And those who are wise shall shine as the brightness of the sky; and those who turn many to righteousness shall shine as the stars forever and ever.

  We live in time, and yet we live in eternity.

  We as individuals are eternal, and live somewhere forever.

  We live either eternally with God or in everlasting torment apart from Him. (Jn.3:14-16)

  Being confronted with question(s), like them or not, is always been a worthwhile exercise; as they provoke us to decide to remain or move.

  Here’s a brief quiz that I awoke with this morning.

  Which is of absolutely singular essential importance now and forever? To be:

·         A faithful church attendee?

·         A Baptist?

·         A preacher?

·         A missionary?

·         A Lutheran?

·         Living righteously?

·         A Sunday School teacher?

·         A chaplain?

·         A Roman Catholic?

·         A deacon or deaconess?

·         An Episcopalian?

·         A nun?

·         A Seventh Day Adventist?

·         A priest?

·         A Roman Catholic?

·         A pastor?

·         A student of the Bible?

·         Charitable?

·         A religious writer?

·         Theologian?

·         A compassionate person?

·         A Methodist?

·         Religious?

·         An evangelical?

·         A Biblical John 1:12; 3:3; Romans 12:1-3 born-again Christian?

  Our answer indicates how our life is defined now and forever.  EBB4

Monday, June 28, 2021

LOVE NOT THE WORLD

 

LOVE NOT THE WORLD

 

  Ex-governor of Nebraska, former USA senator Bob Kerrey spoke Wednesday, October 22, 2019

 at Creighton university, Omaha Nebraska, as part of the school’s Presidential Series.  About 250 people were in attendance. In particular, pertaining to ethical behavior being existent long before Judaism and Christianity were developed, he stated “So I think it’s a mistake to set up secularism as the enemy of religion.”

  I could center on someone making a snarky remark that he knows more about Debra Winger than Eve . . . but I shall not. Instead I’ll first provide the Word of He who is the epitome of morality and justice: “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world. And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.” (ESV 1Jn.2:15-17; also note Rom.12:2; Jam.4:4; Mat.16:26; Luk.9:25; 1Cor.1:20; 3:19; Gal.4:3; Col.2:8.)

  Defining secularism using Webster’s 1828 Dictionary:

·         SECULAR: Pertaining to the present world, or to things not spiritual or holy; relating to things not immediately or primarily respecting the soul, but the body; worldly. The secular concerns of life respect making provision for the support of life, the preservation of health, the temporal prosperity of men, of states, &c. Secular power is that which superintends and governs the temporal affairs of men, the civil or political power; and is contradistinguished from spiritual or ecclesiastical power.

·         SECULARITY: Worldiness; supreme attention to the things of the present life.

  Is secularism contrary to godliness? Yes.

EBB4

 

Sunday, June 27, 2021

STAND UP!

 STAND UP!

Ephesians 6:10-13 Finally, my brothers, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. Put on the whole armor of God so that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the world's rulers, of the darkness of this age, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Therefore take to yourselves the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. 

  In India when the altar call was given I saw people surge forward. Some came asking us to pray for them. Others came asking how to be saved. But they all came!

  When I returned home to the USA I was amazed to see how complacent we American Christians have become. Everyone sat or stood quietly during the altar call. I wanted to proclaim “Come!”

If you are a Christian, stand up and be counted!

If you are a Christian, prepare yourself for the battle!

If you are a Christiaan, stand up for what is right!

If you are3 a Christian ---- STAND UP!

Leslie Nivens (12/12/1928-3/1/2020)

Friday, June 25, 2021

GOD'S PEACE

 GOD’S PEACE

  John 14:27 [Jesus said] Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.

  1Corinthians [MKJV] chapter 12 … But the one and the same Spirit works all these things, distributing separately to each one as He desires. …

  I do not see God’s peace as a promise. Jesus did not promise peace. He pledged, empowered and does provide peace; a reality that may be presently gained and lived. Philippians 4:4-13 and 1Peter 5:6-11 are two passages that explain how to appropriate and maintain this peace. If God’s provision is taken to heart; as with so many other choices in Scripture, God providing, we choosing for or against. (Inert is against.)

  I share an experience of wondrous peace, loss of peace, and regaining peace that included the lesson of 2Timothy 2:15-16; 3:16-17: Trusting Jesus as Redeemer at age 27 I was nonetheless an excited fragile novice witnessing of His Truth. Then along came Charismatic Larry, he asking me if I spoke in tongues? I did not. Larry explained that until I spoke in tongues I had no evidence of the indwelling Holy Spirit, therefore I was not really saved. I was overwhelmed with anxiety. My peace was gone! I had never been so afraid in all my life!! When I arrived home at 1pm after my work shift Ann knew something was wrong, but being of the other gender I said I didn’t feel well. I didn’t!

  The next day at first break I sought out Bud Bond, the Christian that had patiently explained salvation to me. He being a wise older believer he did not respond “Don’t listen to Larry, he’s stupid.” As he and other elders schooled me, Bud never spoon fed. He gave me a Scripture references to read, responsibly consider, and get back to him when I could.

  I read 1Corinthians 12:1-31 and the doctrinal answer is so simple! And my consciousness of God’s peace returned, but it wasn’t just the regained peace that day. Thanks to Bud Bond’s submission to God’s Way I gained a wonderful learning and teaching method.

EBB4

PS. Larry was disappointed in me as I didn’t see things correctly.

Offer: My Eternal Security, blessed assurance, study file is available to all who request it.

 

Thursday, June 24, 2021

CHRISTIANITY IS NOT AN ADDENDUM

 CHRISTIANITY IS NOT AN ADDENDUM

John [MKJV] 3:14-18 But even as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of Man be lifted up, so that whosoever believes in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. or God so loved the world that He gave His only-begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but so that the world might be saved through Him. He who believes on Him is not condemned, but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only-begotten Son of God. 

  T. A. McMahon of The Berean Call (Acts 17:11) wrote a 2 page Biblically informative essay under today’s title. I’ll not copy the essay, but will define “addendum” and give the applicable verses he shared.

  “addendum” means to add-on or to supplement.

  Christianity is not a supplement to an authentic believer’s life. It is John 3:3, born-again, new life; resurrection from John 3:18 present and eternal condemnation.

  More truth to consider:

  Mt.16:24-25 Then Jesus said to His disciples, If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow Me. For whoever desires to save his life shall lose it, and whoever desires to lose his life for My sake shall find it. 

  Lk.10:27-28 And answering, he [Jesus] said, You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself. And He said to him, You have answered right; do this and you shall live. 

  Jn.14:23-24 Jesus answered and said to him, If a man loves Me, he will keep My Word. And My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him. He who does not love Me does not keep My Words, and the Word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father's who sent Me. 

  2Cor.10:3-5 For though walking about in flesh, we do not war according to flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not fleshly, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds, pulling down imaginations and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought into the obedience of Christ; 

  Gal.2:20-21; 24-25 I have been crucified with Christ, and I live; yet no longer I, but Christ lives in me. And that life I now live in the flesh, I live by faith toward the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself on my behalf. I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness is through law, then Christ died without cause. … But those belonging to Christ have crucified the flesh with its passions and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. 

  Eph.2:8-10 For by grace you are saved through faith, and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to good works, which God has before ordained that we should walk in them. 

  Phil.2:3-5 Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than themselves. Do not let each man look upon his own things, but each man also on the things of others. For let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus, 

  Col.2:6-7 Therefore as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him, rooted and built up in Him, and established in the faith, as you have been taught, abounding in it with thanksgiving. 

  1Jn.5:11-12 And this is the record, that God has given to us everlasting life, and this life is in His Son. He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life. 

EBB4

Wednesday, June 23, 2021

MERCY AND ANGER

 

MERCY AND ANGER

Psalm 7:11 God judgeth the righteous, and God is angry with the wicked every day.

 

  Reading Janie B.  Cheaney’s column, Love and Wrath, God’s forgiveness and His judgment are two sides of the same coin, in June 30, 2012 issue of WORLD magazine, one of the paragraphs jumped out at me. How does it strike you?  EBB4

 

  “Can’t God just issue blanket forgiveness for all except the most heinous offender? On what basis? Crimes have to be paid for. Those who will not accept Christ’s payment will have to pay for themselves. Well, can’t He just destroy the rebels? How? The breath He breathed into Adam was never taken back. He’s holding them together. He holds them together even through eternity, where His wrath awaits those who reject Him.”

Tuesday, June 22, 2021

RESPONDING TO ANGER: Part Two

  We respond to anger in numerous ways. I need not list them for we are well aware of as recipient and/or practitioner of from detached objective calm to peeve to extreme. So let’s just skip cataloging and go directly to that which is most important: Dealing with anger in healthy way pleasing to our Lord, for by anger we are too often distracted and hindered here and are and shall be judged. The following is a pocket list to be carried and reviewed as needed. [inserts mine]  EBB4

  “A wise [man or] woman builds [his] her home, but a foolish [man or] woman tears it down with [his] her own hands. Those who follow the right path fear the Lord; those who take the wrong path despise him. . . .  The prudent carefully consider their steps. The wise are cautious[a] and avoid danger; fools plunge ahead with reckless confidence. Short-tempered people do foolish things, and schemers are hated. Simpletons are clothed with foolishness, but the prudent are crowned with knowledge.” NLT Proverbs 14:1-2, 14-18

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  “A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare. The tongue of the wise makes knowledge appealing, but the mouth of a fool belches out foolishness. The Lord is watching everywhere,

keeping his eye on both the evil and the good. Gentle words are a tree of life; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit.” NLT Proverbs 15:1-4

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  “And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.

  Because of the privilege and authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us. . . .

  Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone. Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say, “I will take revenge; I will pay them back,” says the Lord. [Deut.32:35]

  Instead, “If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink.

In doing this, you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads.”[Pr.25:22]

  Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.” NLT Romans 12:1-3, 17-21

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  “Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness [or the justice] God desires. So get rid of all the filth and evil in your lives, and humbly accept the word God has planted in your hearts, for it has the power to save your souls.

  But don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves. For if you listen to the word and don’t obey, it is like glancing at your face in a mirror.  You see yourself, walk away, and forget what you look like. But if you look carefully into the perfect law that sets you free, and if you do what it says and don’t forget what you heard, then God will bless you for doing it.

  If you claim to be religious but don’t control your tongue, you are fooling yourself, and your religion is worthless.” NLT James 1:19-26

Monday, June 21, 2021

RESPONDING TO ANGER

 

RESPONDING TO ANGER

Ecclesiastes 12

  Don’t let the excitement of youth cause you to forget your Creator. Honor him in your youth before you grow old and say, “Life is not pleasant anymore.” Remember him before the light of the sun, moon, and stars is dim to your old eyes, and rain clouds continually darken your sky. Remember him before your legs—the guards of your house—start to tremble; and before your shoulders—the strong men—stoop. Remember him before your teeth—your few remaining servants—stop grinding; and before your eyes—the women looking through the windows—see dimly.

   Remember him before the door to life’s opportunities is closed and the sound of work fades. Now you rise at the first chirping of the birds, but then all their sounds will grow faint.

   Remember him before you become fearful of falling and worry about danger in the streets; before your hair turns white like an almond tree in bloom, and you drag along without energy like a dying grasshopper, and the caperberry no longer inspires sexual desire. Remember him before you near the grave, your everlasting home, when the mourners will weep at your funeral.

   Yes, remember your Creator now while you are young, before the silver cord of life snaps and the golden bowl is broken. Don’t wait until the water jar is smashed at the spring and the pulley is broken at the well.  For then the dust will return to the earth, and the spirit will return to God who gave it.

   “Everything is meaningless,” says the Teacher, “completely meaningless.”

   Keep this in mind: The Teacher was considered wise, and he taught the people everything he knew. He listened carefully to many proverbs, studying and classifying them. The Teacher sought to find just the right words to express truths clearly.

   The words of the wise are like cattle prods—painful but helpful. Their collected sayings are like a nail-studded stick with which a shepherd drives the sheep.

   But, my child, let me give you some further advice: Be careful, for writing books is endless, and much study wears you out.

  That’s the whole story. Here now is my final conclusion: Fear God and obey his commands, for this is everyone’s duty. God will judge us for everything we do, including every secret thing, whether good or bad.

Sunday, June 20, 2021

REJOICE!

 REJOICE!

Philippians 4:4-7 Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice. Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand. Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. 

  The word “rejoice is in the Bible over 200m times. That should tewll us something! God expects us to be happy.

  Have you ever sat in a mall and watched people’s faces? Many look and act as if they just lost a loved one. Some look as though they’re mad at the world.

  I feel like standing in the center aisle and telling everyone to rejoice!

Smile! God loves you!

Leslie Nivens (12/12/1928-3/1/2020)

Friday, June 11, 2021

DOES SCRIPTURE LIBERATE WOMEN?

 

+Does Scripture Oppress or Liberate Women?  

 Catherine SegarsCrosswalk.com Contributing Writer

Editors Note: This article was selected as a finalist in 2021's Selah Awards for “Best Online Article”!

Scripture gets a bad rap when it comes to women. I’ve always considered this fact a bit odd because when you compare the depiction of women in Scripture to other ancient literature and historical accounts, the Bible is revolutionary.

Homer portrayed women as objects, war prizes, pawns, and possessions, “the cause of all conflict and suffering” in the world.[i] Hammurabi discusses the legal rights of women “in terms of chattel, similar to slaves.” Hesiod, claimed that “woman was created as man’s eternal curse.”[ii]

And then there were the great Greek philosophers who established the definitive view on all things—more on them in a bit. Suffice to say, these highbrow, Hellenized thinkers had a rather low opinion of women. And because of them, every major western society has marginalized women since.

Scripture, on the other hand, has a very different portrayal of women than any other ancient book. We do see the mistreatment of women in the Bible, but it is never commended or condoned.

On the contrary, the God of Scripture creates woman from man’s rib and places her in the garden as his equal. She is called his “helper,” or “ezer” in Hebrew, the same word used to describe God Himself in Psalm 115:9-11 and 121:1-2. God blessed the man and the woman, telling them both to rule over the earth (Genesis 1:28).

Let’s compare Scripture with ancient culture to see how liberating God’s Word is for women.

The God of Scripture “Sees” Women

Jesus’ radically liberating treatment of women has been well documented, but we see God’s concern for women long before His Son arrived on the scene.

In the Old Testament, Yahweh identifies with the childless plight of Sarah, Rebekah, and Hanna. He hears their cries, identifies with their pain, and answers their prayers.

We see a very different concern for women when the angel of God follows Hagar, a young slave girl, into the wilderness. This woman was a nobody from nowhere, yet God expresses care for her plight. And God gives her the same promise He gave Sarah, her mistress—that she would have a son, and that her descendants would “be too numerous to count” (Genesis 16:10).

Hagar then makes a claim that all women of faith can say, “You are the God who sees me” (Genesis 16:13).

God sees women.

At a time when only men ruled, God:

- Made Miriam one-third of Israel’s first leadership team. (Micah 6:4)

- Promoted Deborah to the position of chief prophet and judge over Israel, and she served the nation in that capacity for four decades. (Judges 4-5)

- Saw a plucky prostitute in Jericho named Rahab and grafted her into the lineage of Christ. (Joshua 2Matthew 1:5)

- Redeemed a foreign widow named Ruth and birthed King David through her offspring. (Matthew 1:5)

- Took an orphan girl, Esther, and made her a queen just in time to save all of Israel.

- Used Huldah, the prophetess, to instruct the king. (2 Chronicles 34:21-33)

God’s treatment of women in Scripture—even in the Old Testament—is strikingly different than man’s treatment throughout history.

Greek Ideas Dominated the Culture of the New Testament

The Greeks, however, had a very different view of women. At the time of Christ, Jewish culture had marinated in Greek philosophy for hundreds of years. These ideas permeated Old Testament life and were the backdrop of the New Testament world. They dominated Jewish thought and practice.

So, what did the Greeks believe about women?

The father of Greek philosophy, Socrates, argued that “being born a woman is a divine punishment, since a woman is halfway between a man and an animal”[iii] according to Biblical scholar, John T. Bristow.

Plato claimed that cowardly, corrupt men were “transformed, at their second incarnation, into women…. In this fashion, then, women and the whole female sex have come into existence.”[iv]

Aristotle believed that the female was a “monstrosity,”[v] a “deformed male,”[vi] and argued that “the male is by nature superior and the female inferior, the male ruler and the female subject.”[vii] Of the sexes, he believed that “equality of the two or rule of the inferior is always hurtful.”[viii]

And let’s not forget… the Greek poet, Hesiod, professed that “woman was created as man’s eternal curse.”[ix]

Jewish Religious Tradition Was Heavily Influenced by the Greeks

Unfortunately, the Jewish male perspective of women didn’t stray far from the surrounding Hellenized culture.

Teaching a woman the Scriptures was considered “a waste of time—or even worse. Rabbi Eliezer said, ‘If any man gives his daughter a knowledge of the Law it is as though he taught her lechery.’”[x]

Similarly, the Jerusalem Talmud states, “Let the words of Torah be burned up, but let them not be delivered to women.”[xi]

The noted Jewish historian Josephus wrote that the Jewish law declared a wife to be “inferior to her husband in all things.” [xii]

The Berakhot, a Jewish instructional book on prayer, said that “every (Jewish) man is obligated to recite three blessings daily… thank God that I am not a gentile, a woman, or a slave (or in earlier formulations, a boor). This language echoes Greek prayers preserved first by Plato.”

The Greek philosophical view of women is seen in a holy book of Jewish prayers. It is seen in the laws and traditions of a very male-dominated Jewish culture. According to devout Jewish men, women were on par with pagans, slaves, and imbeciles. Teaching women the Scriptures was at best, pointless, at worst, sinful.

The Rabbis didn’t get their ideas about women from Yahweh. They got them from the Greeks.

Jewish Culture Did Not Allow Women to Even Speak to Men

How bad was Jewish culture for women?

During New Testament times, relations between men and women were so restricted that the Mishnah, the first major written collection of Jewish legal theory and oral tradition, warns men to “talk not much with womankind. … He that talks much with womankind brings evil upon himself and neglects the study of the Law and at the last will inherit [hell].”[xiii]

This Jewish book of instruction goes on to completely forbid a man from speaking with a woman he is not married to:

“A man might divorce his wife and not have to return her dowry if she were guilty of speaking to another man; and even the act of speaking to a man in the street might be used as evidence of a bride’s unfaithfulness to her intended.”[xiv]

So, a woman might lose her husband and her home if she spoke to another man, and if she spoke to her husband too much, that might send him to hell.

Women weren’t just considered insignificant or irrelevant in Jewish culture—they were dangerous. According to Jewish written and oral tradition, women were, as Hesiod claimed, “man’s eternal curse.”

The New Testament Liberated Women and Gave Them a Voice

Into this world, Jesus came with a radically different treatment of the female sex. Christ continued God’s tradition of care and concern for women in the Old Testament.

When Jesus conversed with the woman at the well, his disciples “were surprised to find him talking with a woman” (John 4:27). Of course they were. They didn’t expect this revered Rabbi to engage in an activity that could send him to hell. But unlike the religious Jewish men of his day, Jesus spoke with women in public. He honored them. He said that their stories would be told wherever His story was told (Matthew 26:13).

After Christ’s death, for the first time women were brought into the services and their voices were heard.

How do we know this?

Pentecost Ushered Women into the Ministry of the Church

In Acts 2, the women were assembled with the men at one of the very first gatherings of the church. Suddenly, “All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other tongues as the Spirit enabled them.” (vs. 4)

The Holy Spirit cannot cause someone to do what God forbids them to do. Nor would the Holy Spirit fill women with a gift that He would not allow them to use.

Still, everyone was shocked. Loren Cunningham, author of Why Not Women? explains that “Peter had to get up and quickly explain. After all… many women were preaching, declaring the wonders of God! This just wasn’t done. So Peter reminded them the words of the prophet Joel: ‘And afterward, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy… Even on my servants, both men and women, I will pour out my Spirit in those days’”[xv]  (Joel 2:28-29).

Peter reminded the people that God’s plan for women is different than man’s. For the first time, women were ushered into the ministry of the church, and their voices were heard. Pentecost changed the church’s official stance towards women:

If God Himself spoke through women in the church, who has the right to silence them?

Scripture Liberates Women

The Holy Spirit broke the Greek curse implemented through Jewish tradition that kept women bound for centuries. But while man had been silencing women’s voices throughout history, God had been using their gifts all along.

God spoke to Sarah and through Hagar, reminding women that He is the God who sees us. God used Miriam to worship, Deborah to judge, Huldah to prophesy, Rahab to spy, and Esther to deliver. He made Anna the first evangelist, Priscilla a teacher, Chloe a house church leader, Phoebe a deacon, and Junia an apostle. And women were the first to testify of Christ’s resurrection.

Scripture is abundantly clear on this account. God sees women. He hears women. He gives women a voice. He uses our gifts for His glory. No other book in history honors and liberates women as the Bible does, because no other god sees women as our God does.

Thursday, June 10, 2021

CAN LOVED ONES IN HEAVEN LOOK DOWN ON US?

 Can Loved Ones in Heaven Look Down on You?

“I believe the answer is yes.” (I too believe the answer is YES! EBB4)

  Not just from my experiences, but also from others who have reported similar incidents. We are told about the thin veil between heaven and earth, and scripture bears witness to the possibility of movement from one to the other.

  In the Old Testament, we read the story of King Saul, who asked to speak to the prophet Samuel. Granted, Saul made the connection through the witch of Endor (1 Samuel 28), but God allowed that experience. Samuel asked, “Why have you summoned me?” He and Saul discussed the kingdom and Samuel critiqued the embattled king. Saul asked for advice and God allowed it through his deceased servant, Samuel.

  We are cautioned in Deuteronomy 18:10 not to seek out sorcerers and witchcraft. But the passage in First Samuel shows it is possible for someone who has passed to revisit earth and even speak to us…

The Stories

  Reverend Stella Ruiz, an ordained minister and bereavement coordinator for Hospice, writes, “I have listened to many family members share how they have experienced the presence of their loved one. After a loved one dies, many family members yearn for just a touch, a scent, a sign, to know their loved one is alright: the soft smell of the loved one’s perfume, physically feeling the loved one’s arms around the family member, or lights turned off without any reason. The experiences are precious and unique, but can also be painful after the special moment has ended.”

  Several years ago, I met a remarkable woman in a nursing home. In her 80s, Cora loved reminiscing about her life during World War II, the Depression, and the rebuilding of the United States.

Cora shared with me that her son, Buddy, loved his dog. They often played in the backyard, cavorting around the perimeter of the yard, jumping over a tree stump, and playing peek-a-boo under the sheets drying on the clothesline.

  Cora’s precious Buddy died in the flu epidemic of 1918. She grieved long and hard. Then one day she heard the dog barking. She looked in the backyard and saw something that had not happened since Buddy became ill: The dog cavorted around the perimeter of the yard, jumped over the tree stump, then played peek-a-boo under the sheets drying on the clothesline. Cora knew the dog was playing with her invisible son, and a piece of her fractured heart began to heal.

But there is an argument...

The Argument

  A common argument asks, “Why would someone in heaven watch what is happening on earth? That would simply make them sad.”

  But what if God protects the deceased from the sadness and allows only what brings them, as well as us, joy? (Isa.25:8; Rev.7:17; 21:4. Also in 1Jn.3:2 that the redeemed will be like Him. Would this not mean that our perspective will be like His; seeing life large, not small? EBB4)

  We all need to be encouraged. God is faithful in providing that boost of encouragement exactly when we need it. Can’t the God who knows our hearts determine when and how to send a message of hope? Can’t he “save” our souls with a glimpse into his beautiful world and the affirmation that our loved ones are with him?

  “We are surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses” (Hebrews 12:1).

  The use of the word “cloud” implies a different entity – possibly above us and enveloping us. Within that cloud stands those gone before, cheering us on, praising God for our progress as we “run with endurance the race set before us.”

  Since we are told guardian angels walk with us and minister to us (Hebrews 1:13-14), is it not possible that the spiritual realm around us might also include those who have passed? 

On the Desiring God website, John Piper addresses the topic this way:

A Biblical Perspective

  “God will give the saints whatever measure of knowledge they need for the greatest experience of happiness in God. If they need to know something for their fullest experience of joy in God, they will know it. He won’t withhold what is needed for their happiness in him.” –John Piper

  In the New Testament, we read about the rich man and Lazarus. Luke 16:22-26 records the story of how the rich man looked up and saw the poor man, Lazarus, at peace in heaven. The rich man realized too late his mistake in not believing and not caring for the poor folks who journeyed through his life. He asked Abraham to send Lazarus as witness to his family, to warn them before it was too late. Abraham declined the request, but this passage underscores the fact that a deceased Abraham conversed across the spiritual divide.

  If those who suffer in hell can look upward, is it not also possible – under God’s tutelage – for the reverse direction?

The Bible gives us another example...

When God Wills It

  In Matthew 17, the Transfiguration account underscores how deceased saints may suddenly appear on earth. Jesus is joined by Moses and Elijah, who talk with the Son of God. It is a moment of instruction for Peter, James and John, as well as a reminder to us that the saints in glory – when God wills it – can travel back to earth.

  This July, my best friend suffered a sudden illness and left for heaven. After the funeral, I holed up for a while, journaling through my grief and trying to find some sense in my world without Deb.

One night, I sat on my bed with my Bible open, crying out the raw emotions of grief. Then I sensed Deb behind me, her hand on my shoulder – letting me know she was okay.

  I did not actually see Deb or feel her in the physical sense; yet somehow just knowing she was in the room reminded me that our friendship continued into eternity and beyond what I could physically experience. As in life, so in death, her presence was a comfort.

Final thoughts:

  We can’t know everything that happens after death – and truthfully – we probably don’t want to know everything. Yet I believe God is so loving, he sometimes allows us to “see” or “feel” into another realm to remind us he is omnipresent and always caring.

  Years ago, I read an anonymous quote that still encourages me today: “Since God is with us, and our loved ones are with Him – then they’re not very far away.”

RJ Thesman is an author and a certified writing coach. She writes from the heartland of Kansas where she lives with her adult son and an elderly cat. You can follow RJ at https://rjthesman.net/.