Wednesday, August 10, 2016

LAMPSTAND REMOVAL

LAMPSTAND REMOVAL
Wednesday, August 10, 2016

Dear fellow travelers,
  Following yesterday’s DT, BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO, for further understanding and serious ponderance I share with you an applicable passage from Albert Barnes Notes on the Bible. The portion I highlighted spoke to me most heavily in personally reviewing relationship to 1Cor.3:9-20; 9:24-27; Heb.6:1-6; 10:23-35; 12:6-8.
Sincerely, to serve Him all our days,
EBB4
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Revelation 2:5
  Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen - The eminence which you once occupied. Call to remembrance the state in which you once were. The duty here enjoined is, when religion has declined in our hearts, or in the church, to call to distinct recollection the former state - the ardor, the zeal, the warmth of love which once characterized us. The reason for this is, that such a recalling of the former state will be likely to produce a happy influence on the heart. Nothing is better adapted to affect a backsliding Christian, or a backsliding church, than to call to distinct recollection the former condition - the happier days of piety. The joy then experienced, the good done, the honor reflected on the cause of religion, the peace of mind of that period, will contrast strongly with the present, and nothing will be better suited to recall an erring church, or an erring individual, from their wanderings than such a reminiscence of the past. The advantages of thus “remembering” their former condition would be many; for some of the most valuable impressions which are made on the mind, and some of the most important lessons learned, are from the recollections of a former state. Among those advantages, in this case, would be such as the following:

(a)          It would show how much they might have enjoyed if they had continued as they began, how much more real happiness they would have had than they actually have enjoyed.

(b)          How much good they might have done, if they had only persevered in the zeal with which they commenced the Christian life. How much more good might most Christians do than they actually accomplish, if they would barely, even without increasing it, continue with the degree of zeal with which they begin their course.

(c)           How much greater attainments they might have made in the divine life, and in the knowledge of religion, than they have made; that is, how much more elevated and enlarged might have been their views of religion, and their knowledge of the Word of God. And,

(d)          such a recollection of their past state as, contrasted with what they now are, would exert a powerful influence in producing true repentance; for there is nothing better adapted to do this than a just view of what we might have been, as compared with what we now are.

  If a man has become cold toward his wife, nothing is better suited to reclaim him than to recall to his recollection the time when he led her to the altar, the solemn vow then made, and the rapture of his heart when he pressed her to his bosom and called her his own.
  And repent - The word used here means “to change one’s mind and purposes,” and, along with that, “to change one’s conduct or demeanor.” The duty of repentance here urged would extend to all the points in which they had erred.
  And do the first works - The works which were done when the church was first established. That is, manifest the zeal and love which were formerly evinced in opposing error, and in doing good. This is the true counsel to be given to those who have backslidden, and have “left their first love,” now. Often such persons, sensible that they have erred, and that they have not the enjoyment in religion which they once had, profess to be willing and desirous to return, but they know not how to do it - how to revive their ardor, how to rekindle in their bosom the flame of extinguished love. They suppose it must be by silent meditation, or by some supernatural influence, and they wait for some visitation from above to call them back, and to restore to them their former joy. The counsel of the Saviour to all such, however, is to do their first works. It is to engage at once in doing what they did in the first and best days of their piety, the days of their “espousals” Jer_2:2 to God. Let them read the Bible as they did then; let them pray as they did then; let them go forth in the duties of active benevolence as they did then; let them engage in teaching a Sunday school as they did then; let them relieve the distressed, instruct the ignorant, raise up the fallen, as they did then; let them open their heart, their purse, and their hand, to bless a dying world. As it was in this way that they manifested their love then, so this would be better suited than all other things to rekindle the flame of love when it is almost extinguished. The weapon that is used keeps bright; that which has become rusty will become bright again if it is used.
Or else I will come unto thee quickly - On the word rendered “quickly” (τάχει  tachei), see the notes on Rev_1:1. The meaning is, that he would come as a Judge, at no distant period, to inflict punishment in the manner specified - by removing the candle-stick out of its place. He does not say in what way it would be done; whether by some sudden judgment, by a direct act of power, or by a gradual process that would certainly lead to that result.
  And will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent - On the meaning of the word “candlestick” see the notes on Rev_1:12. The meaning is, that the church gave light in Ephesus; and that what he would do in regard to that place would be like removing a lamp, and leaving a place in darkness. The expression is equivalent to saying that the church there would cease to exist. The proper idea of the passage is, that the church would be wholly extinct; and it is observable that this is a judgment more distinctly disclosed in reference to this church than to any other of the seven churches. There is not the least evidence that the church at Ephesus did repent, and the threatening has been most signally fulfilled. Long since the church has become utterly extinct, and for ages there was not a single professing Christian there. Every memorial of there having been a church there has departed, and there are nowhere, not even in Nineveh, Babylon, or Tyre, more affecting demonstrations of the fulfillment of ancient prophecy than in the present state of the ruins of Ephesus. A remark of Mr. Gibbon (Decline and Fall, iv. 260) will show with what exactness the prediction in regard to this church has been accomplished.
  He is speaking of the conquests of the Turks. “In the loss of Ephesus the Christians deplored the fall of the first angel, the extinction of the first candlestick of the Revelations; the desolation is complete; and the temple of Diana, or the Church of Mary will equally elude the search of the curious traveler.” Thus, the city, with the splendid temple of Diana, and the church that existed there in the time of John, has disappeared, and nothing remains but unsightly ruins. These ruins lie about ten days’ journey from Smyrna, and consist of shattered walls, and remains of columns and temples. The soil on which a large part of the city is supposed to have stood, naturally rich, is covered with a rank, burnt-up vegetation, and is everywhere deserted and solitary, though bordered by picturesque mountains. A few grainfields are scattered along the site of the ancient city. Toward the sea extends the ancient port, a pestilential marsh.
  Along the slope of the mountain, and over the plain, are scattered fragments of masonry and detached ruins, but no thing can now be fixed on as the great temple of Diana. There are ruins of a theater; there is a circus, or stadium, nearly entire; there are fragments of temples and palaces scattered around; but there is nothing that marks the site of a church in the time of John; there is nothing to indicate even that such a church then existed there. About a mile and a half from the principal ruins of Ephesus there is indeed now a small village called Asalook, a Turkish word, which is associated with the same idea as Ephesus, meaning, The City of the Moon. A church, dedicated to John, is supposed to have stood near, if not on the site of the present mosque. Dr. Chandler (p. 150, 4to) gives us a striking description of Ephesus as he found it in 1764: “Its population consisted of a few Greek peasants, living in extreme wretchedness, dependence, and insensibility, the representatives of an illustrious people, and inhabiting the wreck of their greatness. Some reside in the substructure of the glorious edifices which they raised; some beneath the vaults of the stadium, and the crowded scenes of these diversions; and some in the abrupt precipice, in the sepulchres which received their ashes. Its streets are obscured and overgrown. A herd of goats was driven to it for shelter from the sun at noon, and a noisy flight of crows from the quarries seemed to insult its silence. We heard the partridge call in the area of the theater and of the stadium ... Its fate is that of the entire country; a garden has become a desert. Busy centers of civilization, spots where the refinements and delights of the age were collected, are now a prey to silence, destruction, and death.
  Consecrated first of all to the purposes of idolatry, Ephesus next had Christian temples almost rivaling the pagan in splendor, wherein the image of the great Diana lay prostrate before the cross; after the lapse of some centuries Jesus gives way to Muhammed, and the crescent glittered on the dome of the recently Christian church. A few more scores of years, and Ephesus has neither temple, cross, crescent, nor city, but is desolation, a dry land, and a wilderness.” See the article” Ephesus” in Kitto’s Cyclopedia, and the authorities there referred to. What is affirmed here of Ephesus has often been illustrated in the history of the world, that when a church has declined in piety and love, and has been called by faithful ministers to repent, and has not done it, it has been abandoned more and more, until the last appearance of truth and piety has departed, and it has been given up to error and to ruin.

  And the same principle is as applicable to individuals, for they have as much reason to dread the frowns of the Saviour as churches have. If they who have “left their first love” will not repent at the call of the Saviour, they have every reason to apprehend some fearful judgment, some awful visitation of his Providence that shall overwhelm them in sorrow, as a proof of his displeasure. Even though they should finally be saved, their days may be without comfort, and perhaps their last moments without a ray of conscious hope. The accompanying engraving, representing the present situation of Ephesus, will bring before the eye a striking illustration of the fulfillment of this prophecy, that the candlestick of Ephesus would be removed from its place. See also the engravings prefixed to the notes on the Epistle to the Ephesians.

Tuesday, August 9, 2016

BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO

BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO
Tuesday, August 09, 2016

(NLT Romans 12:1-5) And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. Because of the privilege and authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us. Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function, so it is with Christ’s body. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other.

  When they were deeply in love they together selected and bought a lovable puppy. As time moved on they both stayed intimate with Bowser but not each other as they shifted their affections to the more important matters of responsibilities of the social programs they were involved in. Finally they separated. He was heartbroken when she took the dog.
  Does the above narrative, or one like it, sound familiar? I’m sure it does by having seen or experienced.
  But how familiar is the following account from “The revelation of Jesus Christ”?

"To the angel of the church in Ephesus write: 'The words of him who holds the seven stars in his right hand, who walks among the seven golden lampstands. "'I know your works, your toil and your patient endurance, and how you cannot bear with those who are evil, but have tested those who call themselves apostles and are not, and found them to be false. I know you are enduring patiently and bearing up for my name's sake, and you have not grown weary. But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first. Remember therefore from where you have fallen; repent, and do the works you did at first. If not, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place, unless you repent. Yet this you have: you hate the works of the Nicolaitans, which I also hate. He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To the one who conquers I will grant to eat of the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.' (ESV Rev.2:1-7)

  In particular I’ve been repeatedly pondering 2:4-5, this morning reviewing in multiple translations and versions as part of my ongoing exercise. I share them for your prayerful consideration and invite your helpful comment:

(NLT)  “But I have this complaint against you. You don’t love me or each other as you did at first! Look how far you have fallen! Turn back to me and do the works you did at first. If you don’t repent, I will come and remove your lampstand from its place among the churches.

(ASV)  But I have this against thee, that thou didst leave thy first love. Remember therefore whence thou art fallen, and repent and do the first works; or else I come to thee, and will move thy candlestick out of its place, except thou repent.

(CEV)  But I do have something against you! And it is this: You don't have as much love as you used to. Think about where you have fallen from, and then turn back and do as you did at first. If you don't turn back, I will come and take away your lampstand.

(ESV)  But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first. Remember therefore from where you have fallen; repent, and do the works you did at first. If not, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place, unless you repent.

(GW)  However, I have this against you: The love you had at first is gone. Remember how far you have fallen. Return to me and change the way you think and act, and do what you did at first. I will come to you and take your lamp stand from its place if you don't change.

(ISV)  However, I have this against you: You have abandoned the love you had at first. Therefore, remember how far you have fallen. Repent and go back to what you were doing at first. If you don't, I will come to you and remove your lamp stand from its place—unless you repent.

(KJV)  Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love. Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else I will come unto thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of his place, except thou repent.

(LITV)  But I have against you that you left your first love.  Then remember from where you have fallen, and repent, and do the first works. And if not, I am coming to you quickly, and will remove your lampstand from its place, unless you repent.

(MKJV)  But I have against you that you left your first love. Therefore remember from where you have fallen, and repent, and do the first works, or else I will come to you quickly and will remove your lampstand out of its place unless you repent.

(Webster)  Nevertheless, I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love. Remember therefore from whence thou hast fallen, and repent, and do the first works; or else I will come to thee quickly, and will remove thy candlestick out of its place, except thou repent.

(YLT)  `But I have against thee: That thy first love thou didst leave! remember, then, whence thou hast fallen, and reform, and the first works do; and if not, I come to thee quickly, and will remove thy lamp-stand from its place--if thou mayest not reform;


EBB4

Monday, August 8, 2016

A STAND UP CHURCH

A STAND UP CHURCH
Monday, August 08, 2016

  Mark [ESV] 12:28-31 And one of the scribes came up and heard them disputing with one another, and
seeing that he answered them well, asked him, "Which commandment is the most important of all?"
Jesus answered, "The most important is, 'Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.' The second is this: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no other commandment greater than these."
  John [NLT] 5:1-9a [While in Galilee He performed miracles.] Afterward Jesus returned to Jerusalem for one of the Jewish holy days. Inside the city, near the Sheep Gate, was the pool of Bethesda, with five covered porches. Crowds of sick people—blind, lame, or paralyzed—lay on the porches. One of the men lying there had been sick for thirty-eight years. When Jesus saw him and knew he had been ill for a long time, he asked him, “Would you like to get well?” “I can’t, sir,” the sick man said, “for I have no one to put me into the pool when the water bubbles up. Someone else always gets there ahead of me.” Jesus told him, “Stand up, pick up your mat, and walk!” Instantly, the man was healed! He rolled up his sleeping mat and began walking!

  Logos, the Word living and written, is little more than stories unless applied to our life. (John chapter 1)
  During my 53+ years as a follower of Christ I’ve moved around geographically, but consistently participated in church. Since experiencing a number of strokes, recovering for the most part with the biggest exception becoming a right hand seat driver, my participation is less physical, but has increased considerably otherwise. This otherwise involved, continues to involve, learning to walk in new ways physically and in ministry. Though the obvious details involving ladders, steering wheels, et al have changed, as I continue to work at traveling in God’s John 14:6 Way I’m still challenged by my Lord to sit down when I don’t want to and stand up when I’d rather not.
  During my 53+ years as follower of Christ I’ve participated as a member in 6 local assemblies, helped served in others, and closely observed several more. I have seen trouble in every one, a few crippled, some to die. Some while there, others after my family moved geographically. I presently am with a troubled body of believers.
  I am of the opinion that those that have not left and those that did leave our local congregation are of the same mind; wanting our body to get up and walk. But to walk how?
  I continue to give this question much study and thought, arriving concretely at the certainty that I, we, must not hold to the distracting primary goal of the survival of our local assembly, but prayerfully seek:
·         What is the will of God for me personally as an elder member in the midst of this transitional time? I have answers and have been implementing them to the best of my knowledge and ability. Today, this DT for one.
·         What is the will of God for other participants individually and as a group?  
  If we individually and corporately sincerely seek direction in and by the Word, our local assembly will arise and walk loving Sovereign Jehovah God and one another in biblical responsibility, with healthy survival of Benson Baptist Church as a by-product. 
  So be it?

EBB4

Sunday, August 7, 2016

DELIVERED TO RESPONSIBILITY

DELIVERED TO RESPONSIBILITY
Sunday, August 07, 2016

John [NLT] 5:1-9a [While in Galilee He performed miracles.] Afterward Jesus returned to Jerusalem for one of the Jewish holy days. Inside the city, near the Sheep Gate, was the pool of Bethesda, with five covered porches. Crowds of sick people—blind, lame, or paralyzed—lay on the porches. One of the men lying there had been sick for thirty-eight years. When Jesus saw him and knew he had been ill for a long time, he asked him, “Would you like to get well?” “I can’t, sir,” the sick man said, “for I have no one to put me into the pool when the water bubbles up. Someone else always gets there ahead of me.” Jesus told him, “Stand up, pick up your mat, and walk!” Instantly, the man was healed! He rolled up his sleeping mat and began walking!

  The above passage of Scripture puzzled me for years. Then Mark Welch introduced me to e-Sword.
  The thing that puzzled me is why would any person, especially Jesus ask “Would you like to get well?”
After being incapacitated for 38 years, why might a person not want to get well?
  Using e-Sword to conveniently access Strong’s and other resources I understood, and then considered some cases of deliverance I’ve observed.
  The word “walk” in verse 8 opened my eyes. Whereas I typically think in English, I believed Jesus was referring to physical movement, putting one foot in front of the other. A core meaning in Greek is “to deport oneself”, which is a whole different story far beyond podiatric plodding.
  Understanding this one word changed how I saw the account recorded in John 5:1-9. It no longer was story of Jesus’ only exercising love by omnipotence. It is largely about His omniscience.
  Deporting oneself can be scary business. Have we not all seen individuals draw back from accepting the responsibilities of deporting oneself? Have you ever been faced with increased mobility and felt like laying back down on familiar bed, or actually done so? I have. (A few years ago a sister a few months younger than me reported that she finally deported herself and took open mike in hand and gave testimony at a Celebration of Life.)
  I’ve seen men long for the deliverance of sobriety, but once free, when confronted with expectation and responsibility of deportment, soon go back to bottle and/or needle, or deliberately go back to the safety of familiar incarceration.
  My mind now turns to a favorite verse that both comforts and at times frightens me: “When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things.” (NLT 1Cor.13:11) This Word comforts when I consider progress away from pallet. It is frightening if I view largely angst over the hints of future deportment.
  My final thought: “… look carefully into the perfect law that sets you free, and if you do what it says and don’t forget what you heard, then God will bless you for doing it.”(NLT Jam.1:25)
EBB4

  

Friday, August 5, 2016

CONSCIENCE STRICKEN

CONSCIENCE STRICKEN
Friday, August 05, 2016

1Timothy 4:1-2  Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils; Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron;
James 4:17 Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.

  Today’s title, another yesteryear phrase, was my awakening thought. I’m thankful it this morning is ponderance and not onus; conscience stricken being a horrible state of mind, especially if it is too late for avenue of reparation.
  Not being a prophet I can’t say for sure that we’re in the latter times the Apostle Paul wrote of, but I do believe there is less conscience resulting in more prevarication in the USA than once was. Lying has always been practiced within our borders, but I contend it is now more commonly practiced in this nation.
  To illustrate let’s look at insurance fraud and its toll: According to recent insurance industry estimates USA fraud is about 80 million ($80,000,000!). So what?!? Right? I’ve never done it. And it’s no skin off my nose!
  Really? How does $950 per family cost strike us as individuals in this nation? (Think what your insurance bill would be without the cost of fraud.)
  And then there’s those holding citizenship in the kingdom of Heaven. The godliness thing within our blessed insurance paid once and forever. (Heb.2:3)
  Though I know I am as capable of insurance fraud as any other sin, I have not. But I have done far worse and been conscience stricken for it.
  Frankie was a foundry coworker for some years. A fine young fellow, polite, teachable, caring, trustworthy, and hardworking. I knew without shadow of doubt that I was to witness to him. I wanted to. I did not do so.
  After supper Frankie enjoyed his easy chair and evening newspaper with his dear wife bringing him dessert after she cleared and washed dishes. One morning we were informed of his wife found him sitting, paper in hand, dead.
  Upon being informed I was conscience stricken as I recalled “The word of the LORD came to me:"Son of man, speak to your people and say to them, If I bring the sword upon a land, and the people of the land take a man from among them, and make him their watchman, and if he sees the sword coming upon the land and blows the trumpet and warns the people, then if anyone who hears the sound of the trumpet does not take warning, and the sword comes and takes him away, his blood shall be upon his own head. He heard the sound of the trumpet and did not take warning; his blood shall be upon himself. But if he had taken warning, he would have saved his life. But if the watchman sees the sword coming and does not blow the trumpet, so that the people are not warned, and the sword comes and takes any one of them, that person is taken away in his iniquity, but his blood I will require at the watchman's hand."So you, son of man, I have made a watchman for the house of Israel. Whenever you hear a word from my mouth, you shall give them warning from me. If I say to the wicked, O wicked one, you shall surely die, and you do not speak to warn the wicked to turn from his way, that wicked person shall die in his iniquity, but his blood I will require at your hand. But if you warn the wicked to turn from his way, and he does not turn from his way, that person shall die in his iniquity, but you will have delivered your soul.” (ESV Ez,33:1-9)
EBB4
 

  

Thursday, August 4, 2016

CONSCIENTIOUS LIVING

CONSCIENTIOUS LIVING
Thursday, August 04, 2016

Psalm 86:11-13 Teach me thy way, O LORD; I will walk in thy truth: unite my heart to fear thy name. I will praise thee, O Lord my God, with all my heart: and I will glorify thy name for evermore. For great is thy mercy toward me: and thou hast delivered my soul from the lowest hell.
Psalm 119:9-12 Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word. With my whole heart have I sought thee: O let me not wander from thy commandments. Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee. Blessed art thou, O LORD: teach me thy statutes.
1Corinthians 3:9-11 For we are labourers together with God: ye are God's husbandry, ye are God's building. According to the grace of God which is given unto me, as a wise masterbuilder, I have laid the foundation, and another buildeth thereon. But let every man take heed how he buildeth thereupon. For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ.

  My childhood familial education was filled with moral and ethical teaching accompanied by healthy discipline. Within our upbringing was, though I never heard the term until the 1960s, that racial prejudice was not any part of our family way of life. Though previously taught, I well remember the day this was made crystal clear to me.
  Arriving home in answer to the evening supper call, Uncle Jim inquired as to who I had played with that day. I, proudly speaking a term I’d heard the older boys use, responded “I’ve been playing with those kike kids that live a few streets over.”
  Supper meal was normal but the unusual then happened. When I asked “May I be excused from the table?” I was not. What’s going on? I wondered. I soon found out . . . and gained another rock in foundation of family conscience.
  “Let your conscience be your guide.” Was then a constant in our family, the public school I attended, the neighborhood (“Where’s your conscience boy?!!”), community, and so far as I knew, the United States of America.
  Soon after in my 27th year trusting Lord Jesus Christ as personal Redeemer was closely followed by mentors’ encouragement and guidance in why and how to study God’s Word and thereby gain utmost genuine thought and life application . . . I realized that conscience not gripped by Logos, John 1:1 “Word”, is not reliable as life-guide, especially in unexpected unforeseen unprepared for circumstances.
  To illustrate: If I were raised to believe Klingons are born stupid lesser-than-me beings I would not be “conscience stricken” (Another term of yesteryear.) about their suppression or destruction as a race and culture. With enough misbegotten conscience I could even rejoice in Klingon suffering and demise.
  For Christian, our conscience is only as reliable as much as it is operatively grounded in He that is the only truly authentic Reliable One.
  If you are not already doing so as a child in God’s John 1:12 family, I encourage you to agreeably build on the one and only solid foundation, Jesus Christ.
  “Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance, to understand a proverb and a saying, the words of the wise and their riddles. The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.” (Pr.1:5-7)
EBB4

For additional contemplation: Act.23:1; 24:16; Rom.2:14-15; 9:1;12:1-3; !Cor.4:4; 2Cor.1:12; 5:11; 1Tim.4:1-2


Wednesday, August 3, 2016

A CURSE UPON OUR CHILDREN?

A CURSE UPON OUR CHILDREN
Wednesday, August 03, 2016

Hebrews [ESV] 1:7-14; 2:1-9 Of the angels he [God] says, "He makes his angels winds, and his ministers a flame of fire." But of the Son he says, "Your throne, O God, is forever and ever, the scepter of uprightness is the scepter of your kingdom. You have loved righteousness and hated wickedness; therefore God, your God, has anointed you with the oil of gladness beyond your companions." And, "You, Lord, laid the foundation of the earth in the beginning, and the heavens are the work of your hands; they will perish, but you remain; they will all wear out like a garment, like a robe you will roll them up, like a garment they will be changed. But you are the same, and your years will have no end." And to which of the angels has he ever said, "Sit at my right hand until I make your enemies a footstool for your feet"? Are they not all ministering spirits sent out to serve for the sake of those who are to inherit salvation? Therefore we must pay much closer attention to what we have heard, lest we drift away from it. For since the message declared by angels proved to be reliable, and every transgression or disobedience received a just retribution, how shall we escape if we neglect such a great salvation? It was declared at first by the Lord, and it was attested to us by those who heard, while God also bore witness by signs and wonders and various miracles and by gifts of the Holy Spirit distributed according to his will. For it was not to angels that God subjected the world to come, of which we are speaking. It has been testified somewhere, "What is man, that you are mindful of him, or the son of man, that you care for him? You made him for a little while lower than the angels; you have crowned him with glory and honor, putting everything in subjection under his feet." Now in putting everything in subjection to him, he left nothing outside his control. At present, we do not yet see everything in subjection to him. But we see him who for a little while was made lower than the angels, namely Jesus, crowned with glory and honor because of the suffering of death, so that by the grace of God he might taste death for everyone.
James 3:6-10 … the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so.

  Reading James I discover “curse” and “cursing” means more than words when I smash my finger. Using Strong’s I find the words have to do with “imprecation” and “execration”.  Imprecation means to invoke evil on someone. Execration is somewhat crudely akin to it.
  There are naïve cultural forms of imprecating our children far from John 14:6 truth for living; ways of instilling self-esteem egocentrically opposed to godliness; an emphasis on accomplishments as personal identity. Acted out by those claiming trust in God’s Word entails denying His truth about man (Rom.7:18; 12:1-3) and the King of kings (1Tim.6:15; Rev.17:14; 19:16)
  I often hear conversation bragging about children’s successes in sports, academics, et al, with seldom a mention of good Christian character traits. What then do children hear and believe as the way to live?
  Making grades, awards, and achievements as quantifying identity may imprecate children to walk apart from God. In this practice children are stressed as they compete to be winners by this world’s standards rather than dwelling in Christ’ peace while benefiting from competition. (Jn.16:33)
  Example: When a ball game is not seen as sport or exercise, but a striving for identity, where does it leave a child or later as adult when they lose that worldly identity?
  Let us take care that we not imprecate our beloved children with worldly standards of identity. 

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