EVIDENCES OF PRIDE
Sunday, November 24,
2019
“Finally, everyone must
live in harmony, be sympathetic, love each other, have compassion, and be
humble.” (GW 1Pet.3:8)
When it come to pride versus humility, there is no neutral
ground.
As with all characteristics favorably beneficial or
otherwise detrimental, there are evidences, some very obvious, others not so;
pride quite easily recognized in others; while comparatively the most difficult
evidence to see is personally that pride is spelled “life is all about me”.
(Note 1Cor.12 & 13, especially 13:11)
Here is a checklist I compiled first of all for myself and to
assist others in the recognition our pride:
1.
Passing judgment on, complaining against God. Num.14:1-11;
Rom.9:20.
2.
A general lack of gratitude and thankfulness. 2Chron.32:25.
3.
Anger, ever-present “my rights”. Mt.20:1-16.
4.
Intolerant, easily disgusted. Lk.7:36-50.
5.
Inflated view of importance, intelligence, gifts, abilities,
talents. 1Cor.4:7.
6.
Focusing on # 5. list of lacks. 1Cor.12:14-25.
7.
Driven in perfectionism and expecting it in others.
Mt.23:24-28.
8.
Vociferous loose lips. Pr.10:19.
9.
Boastfulness. Pr.27:2; Gal.6:3.
10.
Difficulty in working or serving under authority; wanting to
control. 1Cor.1:10-13; Eph.5:21.
11.
Disproportionately concerned or regulated by other’s
opinions of you, resulting in man-pleasing instead of God-pleasing manner.
Gal.1:10. (There’s also the contrary side of this pridefulness; not giving a
hoot about manner and reputation.)
12.
Ravaged and riled by advice or criticism. Pr.13:1.
13.
Unteachable. Pr.19:20; Jn.9:13-14.
14.
Sarcastic and demeaning toward people. Pr.12:18, 23.
15.
No recognition = no service. Gal.5:13; Eph.2:10.
16.
Without concern for others. Mt.5:7; 18:23-35.
17.
Defensiveness and blame-shifting. Gen.3:12-13; Pr.12:1.
18.
Self-excusing or half-heartedly apologetic. Pr.10:17.
19.
Prayers centered in self, not others, not God. Lk.18:10-14.
20.
Disrespectful. 1Pet.2:13-17.
21.
Untimely or inconsiderate opining. Phil.2:1-4.
22.
Not asking forgiveness of God or man. Mt.5:23-24.
23.
Underrating sins and limitations. Mt.7:3-5.
24.
Maximizing others’ sins and limitations. Mt.7:3-5;
Lk.18:9-14.
25.
Irritable and impatient with others or even self.
Eph.4:31-32.
26.
Jealous and envious. 1Cor.13:4.
27.
Using others for self-interest or gain. Mt.7:12; Phil.2:3-4.
28.
Deceitful, secretive. Pr.11:3; 28:13.
29.
Fishing for compliments and attention. 1Pet.3:3-4.
30.
Abstaining from close relationships. Pr.18:1-2;
Heb.10:24-25.
Additionally: another mark of pride versus humility is
refusal to examine self using a checklist such as this one.
After editing and setting aside the above to ponder a bit
more, an afterthought: Hours after completing EVIDENCES OF PRIDE, the absolute
incongruity of pride’s manners struck me. Living in and by pride we may all at
the same time despise authority while being a man-pleaser while bragging of
sinful exploits while deceitfully hiding or denying others while fishing for
recognition while apologetic about accomplishment while ___________. O’ but how
sinful we are!
EBB4